5 Tips Dealing with Scorpio in Love

Relationships are not for the weak-hearted; they take dedication, patience, and above all, understanding of your partner. Astrology can help people to understand each other, which leads to acceptance of our partners. When we can accept our partners, we allow them to become their best selves. When we try to change our spouse, we lose interest anyway, so understanding your partner remains one of the keys to a successful relationship and marriage.

This post will look at the Scorpio individual particularly in a committed relationship. These tips are not really for casual dating. You will make greater use all of these tips if you are in a committed relationship or married to a Scorpio.

Note that not every Scorpio is the same, but they will share similar tendencies.

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1. Possessiveness/Jealousy

Your Scorpio partners cares for you. A lot. Sometimes too much, to the point where they feel that they possess your personality and individuality. If they see you sharing either with another person, especially of the opposite sex, intense feelings may arise that your partner may or may not be experienced with controlling. If you are a flirty person by nature, you really could be playing with fire if you decide to partner with a Scorpio.

Feelings of jealousy of possessiveness come from trauma or self-esteem issues. It could also be that your partner is just very excited to be with you, but they haven’t learned to control that excitement. Either way there is nothing you can do to “fix” your partner. This is either something you will have to contend with during your relationship, or you will have to speak with your partner about sucking it up and dealing with your nature. Considering Scorpio is the sign of poison and death, I personally wouldn’t try it.

2. Intense Emotions at Home

In the home you will get a different picture of your spouse than in public. Scorpios like having control, so they may claim a spot or room in your home for themselves, and they will decorate it to match their tastes or needs. If they have an office, they will spend much of their time there, researching or working on whatever has their attention. They may desire control of the family’s finances, since Scorpio is related to the eighth house. One thing for sure you can expect is your Scorpio spouse to have their emotions on display once the front door is locked. They may be more open to listening outside, but inside they could expect to have the final say. Avoiding escalating arguments; sometimes you may have to fall back to let your partner just have their way this time. You can lose the battle to win the war another day.

3. Dealing with Manipulation

Unfortunately Scorpios know many ways to control people. Scorpio represents persuasion and power struggles. Be careful that you aren’t being controlled or manipulated by your partner into doing things you do not want. Guilt, shame, threats, withholding sex; there are many manipulative games that we play in relationships and by the end of your relationship you’ll be familiar with most of them.

One good thing to take away from this: Scorpios tend to not spend too much energy on people or things they have no emotions for. So if you do think your partner is trying to sweet talk you, at the very least appreciate that they care enough about you to even act. But on a serious note, talk with your partner to make sure that all the mind games are addressed and dealt with.

4. Sexual Connection

Yes, these natives are likely to be very sexual, very possessive, very demonstrative after you are officially together. For Scorpios, sex with a spouse is a chance to connect deeply (no pun intended) on a physical, emotional, and even spiritual level with their partner.

While Leo focuses on the romantic, pleasurable aspect of sex, Scorpio focuses on the emotional aspect to sex. Sex allows Scorpio natives to express their emotions in a candid, natural manner. However, you must also be aware of how your partner leverages sex in the relationship, especially if your Scorpio partner is the leader.

5. Secrets and Skeletons

Scorpio natives are naturally bound to bump into some unscrupulous characters during their lifetimes. It’s just a Scorpio thing; darkness attracts darkness, and not all darkness can be redeemed. So be aware, as you get to know your Scorpio partner, that they may indeed have some skeletons in the closet, some unsavory history, and some very deep secrets they only share with a handful of close comrades. Even years into the relationship, if you keep digging, you’re likely to keep finding things that your partner has buried underneath their stoic expression. Just be sure to know what you are getting yourself into before hitting the boyfriend/girlfriend buzzer.


So, did these tips resonate with you? How has your experience committing to a Scorpio been? Do you have any tips you’d like to share? Comment down below! Or, if you’d like a complete analysis of your relationship or marriage, you can contact me here for a synastry reading.

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