Relationships are not for the weak-hearted; they take dedication, patience, and above all, understanding of your partner. Astrology can help people to understand each other, which leads to acceptance of our partners. When we can accept our partners, we allow them to become their best selves. When we try to change our spouse, we lose interest anyway, so understanding your partner remains one of the keys to a successful relationship and marriage.
This post will look at the Libra individual particularly in a committed relationship. These tips are not really for casual dating. You will make greater use all of these tips if you are in a committed relationship or married to a Libra.
Note that not every Libra is the same, but they will share similar tendencies.
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1. Balanced Interactions
Libras love interacting with people. They put their entire self worth on their ability to form connections with other people. Therefore, as an intimate partner they expect a certain level of passion from you in the relationship as well. They might not want you to bounce off walls, but at least they will want to you match the energy they put out. Libras want to feel that they are given what they give back. Otherwise they will start to feel taken advantage of and pull back. They may also feel unworthy and start to make up for it by over-doing to gain validation from you. Reassure your partner that you cannot maintain intense levels of passion everyday, but that you can still love them regardless.
2. Reflecting Through the Relationship
Often Libras choose relationships that allow them to reflect aspects of themselves. You may have noticed this in your own relationship, where your Libra partner seems more confident speaking about a topic or acting a certain way with you after you got together. This is because they are using your relationship as a mirror to reflect their own values. It may be worthwhile to vet a Libra partner before committing long term just to make sure that your partner is who they appear to be.
It’s not that Libras are trying to manipulate you, or that they are using people. It is that they can truly show themselves when they are in personal or intimate relationships with people. Therefore, it may take a while before you truly get to know how your partner will be with you in the long term. They will need to get a feel for who you are and their own place in your life before they can reflect that through their interaction with you.
3. Appeasement/Keeping the Peace
Sometimes it is better to argue and get things out on the table. But with Libra natives that can be difficult as they prefer to keep the peace around them. They may dismiss your arguments with statements that diffuse the tension. Libra natives find conflict physically uncomfortable and can sometimes get sick when they are in heated environments.
It may be best to plan out a time to talk about your grievances with your Libra partner, so that you understand that problems will be discussed. That way your partner can approach disagreements with a solution in mind.
4. Sexual Submission
Libra partners are happy to satisfy their partners sexually. They are likely to match their partner’s sexual drive, although their native Mars will signify more on that. Libras enjoy luxury, sensuality, and aesthetics, so adorning your bedroom with soft materials, sensational smells, and soothing music can elevate your sexuality to another level.
5. Your Partner Can Lose Themselves
It is easy for your Libra partner to begin to lose their sense of self in the relationship. Sometimes they may get too involved and start forgoing their own personal goals and wishes to make the family happy. Although sacrifice is a necessary part of being a parent and an adult, we can allow ourselves some satisfaction by achieving personal dreams.
When you start to see your partner giving up too much of themselves to make you happy, it would be valuable to say something about it or let them know that they can be selfish sometimes. This will help in the long run, as brief periods of self awareness will restore your Libra partner to remember who they are. When they return to the relationship, they will have regained that Venusian magnetism that drew you into them in the first place.
So, did these tips resonate with you? How has your experience committing to a Libra been? Do you have any tips you’d like to share? Comment down below! Or, if you’d like a complete analysis of your relationship or marriage, you can contact me here for a synastry reading.
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